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I think she may have been born in the winter months. I rather like the large bulbous wine glass. Pity it is not cut glass.
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Gamble you’re actually scarily spot on with your description of her personality there, did you study psychology or something similar once upon a time? Funny you say about her being introverted because I asked her earlier if she had many friends back home and she said no, because she doesn’t get along with many people her age, she does seem mature for a 21 year old to be fair (I’m 30 myself so though it’s a bit of a gap it isn’t a worry if the lady is level-headed enough). I find it funny that you say she isn’t confident as well because I’d agree for whatever reason that might be, I don’t quite know her well enough to have all the details on her background and upbringing, though I do know she hasn’t been around her dad much and I don’t think she’s seen him in a very long time. She told me her mum works in a bank and that they live in Dakha, so I’d hope she isn’t at risk of flooding but will have to ask. I was actually quite surprised and happy when I met her mother, she’s a nice thin lady so hopefully that bodes well for the future, I’d say she’s more curvy than pear shaped, more of an hour-glass figure than someone who’s bottom heavy.
Another funny thing shes told me that I haven’t gotten to the bottom of yet is that her uncle (on her mums side) has money and she’s over here because they’re staying at his house – of which he has two – by the sea. But shes told me if she’s going to come to university here then the uncle will have to pay for it, fine, however, the uncle is a very strict muslim and would only want her to date a muslim man – but here’s the good part, the uncle is gay and lives with his non-muslim husband in their house by the sea!
Thinking about it re her confidence being low, shes told me she doesn’t get along with her uncle at all because he apparently berates her and belittles her constantly, that coupled with the fact that her dad never seemed to want to know her would explain the lack of confidence, which I’m guessing is potentially amplified around men.
Nothing has ever been simple in my life, though when things are all smooth sailing I tend to get bored so I think I like it this way.
Thanks again for the analysis Gamble, very well put all of it!!
Well Ben thank you for all the detail and filling in the dots. I have no Masters in Psychology but have hopefully developed skills with my work on clones, and particularly Salty Jack, who took a year out of my life – and spending a whole year researching a psychopath registers a deep learning curve, but it did make me question my sanity.
I can see your dilemma Ben – you are in a fragile state having been recently hurt.I spent about ten minutes looking at her and formed quite a deep impression of the young lady. I think she is honest Ben which is the most important quality. The main problem is her difficulty with familial males which presents to you a problem in that is she could take out these failed relationships on you as a surrogate. Blame you as she blames them. I would therefore rule out a Gretna Green and spend a good year living with her ( if it comes to that) before you commit. The old ghosts may come back to haunt you but at least she will have been tried and tested. I think Nathan’s advice was quite good -:to keep your options open. The odd letter does impress and keep a bit back as she has.
I wish you all the best for the future Ben and there are other fish in the sea, but and this is a big but, if you line a good one – my advice is – try to hang on to it.I’d like to hear more of these stories regarding you spending a year researching a psychopath, you may well have mentioned it all before but sadly I missed it! I’ve found that whenever I do something uncomfortable I tend to question my sanity too, maybe for different reasons, but I feel like I’m at my happiest when pushing boundaries and I’m sure you came out of it feeling more rounded.
I will try not to get overly committal if that’s possible – I only say this because she appears keen to go down the committal route to give myself some space and chance to pivot if it so requires like Nathan suggested. However, she does really seem different to any woman I’ve met before in terms of how I get along with her and I’m tending to think she is indeed a good one, so I’ll do what I can not to screw this up. Like your namesake I always have loved a gamble and this feels like a roll of the dice that could well be worth it.
Good for you Ben
Very pretty young lady
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Well if it’s in April after we’ve all won loads of dosh then I’d say Vegas, however if the bets don’t go according to plan then maybe we’ll have to have it round Chezzas place as I don’t think he’s overly fond of large social gatherings, who needs roulette tables and bright lights when we can have biscuits?!
“I don’t think he’s overly fond of large social gatherings”
You got that right – please let me know when you all plan to drop by so I can ensure I’ve exchanged contracts, completed and physically moved house by the day before.
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I must admit I do like ginger biscuits.
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